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		<title>Saudi Arabia to Grant Citizenship to Expats</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 06:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Rob Corder
Saudi Arabia has reaffirmed its commitment to grant citizenship to expatriates that have qualifications in hi-tech professions.
A naturalisation programme was first discussed in October 2004 when it was announced that expats with degrees in medicine, computer science, and other branches of science and technology would be given priority for citizenship.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><span class="small grey"><span style="font-size:xx-small;color:#444444;"><em>by <!-- Author Start -->Rob Corder</em></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://theexpatriates.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/passport_visas_thumb.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-22" src="http://theexpatriates.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/passport_visas_thumb.jpg?w=300&#038;h=183" alt="" width="300" height="183" /></a>Saudi Arabia has reaffirmed its commitment to grant citizenship to expatriates that have qualifications in hi-tech professions.</p>
<p>A naturalisation programme was first discussed in October 2004 when it was announced that expats with degrees in medicine, computer science, and other branches of science and technology would be given priority for citizenship.</p>
<p>A requirement for expatriates to have spent 10 years living in Saudi Arabia was relaxed at that time.<br />
Applications for citizenship have been accepted since May 2005.<br />
It is thought that up to one million of the seven million expatriates estimated to be living in the Kingdom might be eligibile.</p>
<p>Citizenship will not deliver the same rights of a Saudi Arabian national, but is expected to remove the requirement for a migrrant worker to be tied to a sponsor; a rule that greatly restricts freedom to switch jobs.</p>
<p>Citizens would also be able to travel freely in and out of Saudi Arabia.</p>
<p>Saudi Arabia&#8217;s Interior Minister, Prince Nayef Bin Abdel Aziz, reaffirmed yesterday that King Abdullah had agreed to grant citizenship to foreign residents with scientific qualifications, but gave no further details.</p>
<p>It is expected that citizenship will be dependent on a points system that was first announced in 2005. At that time, it was stated that applicants must accumulate a minimum of 23 points to qualify in the first stage of the process based on the length of stay in the country, the number of family members dependent on the applicant, and the level of qualification.</p>
<p>An applicant was to be given 13 points for a doctorate in medicine or engineering, 10 points for those holding doctorates in other sciences and eight points for a master&#8217;s degree.Applicants were also required to present a certificate from the Imam of their local mosque stating that they regularly attended for prayers.</p>
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		<title>Moving Abroad as an Accompanying Partner</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Rebecca Wells
If you’re an accompanying partner/spouse who is planning to move abroad or who has already taken the plunge you’ll be experiencing some unique feelings and challenges. Having moved myself from London to Sydney as an accompanying spouse I can fully appreciate the nervousness, frustration and anxiety you might be experiencing and would like [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theexpatriates.wordpress.com&blog=3868548&post=19&subd=theexpatriates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><div><em><span style="font-size:x-small;">by Rebecca Wells</span></em></p>
<p><a href="http://bp1.blogger.com/_4OwnEG9mYM0/SEYpVo7XFRI/AAAAAAAAA9E/6V2yDn_LAqg/s1600-h/REBECAWELLS.jpg"><span style="color:#000066;font-family:trebuchet ms;"><img style="float:left;cursor:hand;margin:0 10px 10px 0;" src="http://bp1.blogger.com/_4OwnEG9mYM0/SEYpVo7XFRI/AAAAAAAAA9E/6V2yDn_LAqg/s400/REBECAWELLS.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></span></a><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">If you’re an accompanying partner/spouse who is planning to move abroad or who has already taken the plunge you’ll be experiencing some unique feelings and challenges. Having moved myself from London to Sydney as an accompanying spouse I can fully appreciate the nervousness, frustration and anxiety you might be experiencing and would like to share some ideas to help you settle, adapt and start to enjoy your new life abroad more quickly. </span></p>
<p></span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong>1. Overcoming pre-departure nerves<br />
</strong>If you’re moving abroad because your partner’s been transferred with work it might mean your own life and career will have to be put on hold momentarily. This is a fairly unnerving experience as you start to think about what your life abroad will be like for you personally. Perhaps you’re moving with children and you’re concerned about how it may affect them. You might be worried about leaving family behind and in some cases they might be unhappy, or even hostile, about your decision to emigrate. Tip: Focus on your positive reasons for moving, reassure family you’re not moving to the Moon(!) and can be contacted at any time, do as much research as you can before you leave and set realistic expectations of what you’ll practically be able to do straight away. Although you may be keen to get a job as soon as possible, it may be necessary for you to sort out a property, furniture, schools etc first! If you plan and prepare as much as possible before you leave, it will definitely help you settle more quickly after you’ve arrived. </span></p>
<p></span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong>2. Conquering feelings of loneliness and homesickness<br />
</strong>These feelings affect some people more than others, at different stages and in varying intensities. If you’ve moved as an accompanying partner, and your spouse started working as soon as you arrived, loneliness can be an even more powerful and sometimes crippling sensation.You might experience the feeling of being ‘left behind’ or think you’ve ‘lost control’. You may see your partner making friends through work whilst you’re still struggling to adapt to your new environment. Tip: Accept that this is normal, communicate how you feel to your partner and keep in regular touch with home. It’s all about getting into routines again and being proactive about creating the life you want. I’d also recommend you don’t have a regular day/time when you call your folks back home just in case you can’t make it one week, they panic and call the missing persons bureau or the police! </span></p>
<p></span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong>3. Boosting your confidence</strong><br />
When you move abroad, you might find that things you were really confident doing back home are suddenly really hard to face. Just the thought of going out and meeting new people can be extremely daunting. It’s important to remind yourself that you&#8217;ve done these things before and can consequently do them again.Tip: On the day you’ve arranged to meet new people let the adrenaline that builds up push you towards the fear rather than away from it. Being pushed out of your comfort zone can make you feel a little sick but it’s actually a good thing; it means you’re growing and experiencing new things, which was probably one of your reasons for moving abroad in the first place! If the worst comes to the worst you can always make an excuse to leave early &#8211; but nine times out of ten you’ll probably have a great night out, so be brave and go for it! </span></p>
<p></span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong>4. Coming to terms with being financially dependent<br />
</strong>Lots of people who move overseas as accompanying partners find themselves being, at least initially, financially dependent on their spouses. This can be really frustrating and make you feel uncomfortable. Tip: The best way to deal with it is to accept it and remind yourself of the positive reasons you both decided on this arrangement to start with. If you still really don’t enjoy it, decide to do something about it before it starts to make you really unhappy.<br />
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</span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong>5. Starting a new career</strong><br />
Lots of accompanying partners find job hunting frustrating and get despondent because they can’t find a job (a) at the right level/salary (b) in the right industry (c) that offers flexible hours or (d) fast enough!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Tip: Stay patient and focused on what you want. Most overseas job markets are favourable towards skilled UK immigrants and there are plenty of recruitment agencies that will be interested in talking with you before you have left the UK.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Just be aware that some newcomers find adjusting to work cultures overseas more difficult than they had expected and it may take a while for you to ‘fit in’ at work. </span></p>
<p></span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong>6. Communicating your concerns to your partner<br />
</strong>Sometimes to protect our partners, we are economical with the truth with regards to the extent of how a situation is making us feel. When moving abroad, it’s common to feel unnerved by the fact that familiar tasks and situations suddenly change: your routines, career, family life and financial situation all take a bit of a bashing. Even the simplest of things can become extremely frustrating. Tip: Acknowledge that feeling this way is perfectly normal but also understand that you’re not on your own. If you are finding it tough adjusting to your new life abroad, make sure you discuss it with your partner. Research has shown repeatedly that an accompanying partner’s happiness and ability to adapt effectively has a massive impact on whether or not the expatriation is successful and of a long duration.7. Lastly &#8211; set some objectivesBe intentional about how you lead your new life abroad so that it doesn’t just pass you by. </span></p>
<p></span><span style="color:#000066;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Tip: If it helps you, get some extra support and encouragement from a coach to plan some objectives and tangible actions to help you have the life abroad you’ve always wanted!<br />
I hope you found this article helpful and welcome any views or comments you might have! Good luck!</span></p>
<p></span><em><span style="color:#99ff99;font-family:trebuchet ms;">Rebecca Wells is a life coach, based in Sydney, who specialises in helping expatriates worldwide settle in their host countries more quickly and be proactive about leading the fulfilling and successful lives they want long term.</span></em></div>
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		<title>Finding a Place (Hotel or Apartment) To Stay in Paris, France</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Chris Pearson
Paris isn’t cheap. We knew that going in, but we were a bit surprised by just how expensive it is to stay in Paris at even the “less expensive” places. So we did lots of research for our Paris trip this coming August, and I will share our findings with you. Perhaps it [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theexpatriates.wordpress.com&blog=3868548&post=18&subd=theexpatriates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">Paris isn’t cheap. We knew that going in, but we were a bit surprised by just how expensive it is to stay in Paris at even the “less expensive” places. So we did lots of research for our Paris trip this coming August, and I will share our findings with you. Perhaps it will save you a few hours in finding a place for, or few hundred Euros on, your next trip to Paris.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">There are two main factors that cause Paris to be expensive in our case. The first is that the <a href="http://bp0.blogger.com/_4OwnEG9mYM0/SEDu99lz7NI/AAAAAAAAA40/TBCY9IQn9Ek/s1600-h/imgbig_home-300x289.jpg"><img style="float:right;cursor:hand;margin:0 0 10px 10px;" src="http://bp0.blogger.com/_4OwnEG9mYM0/SEDu99lz7NI/AAAAAAAAA40/TBCY9IQn9Ek/s400/imgbig_home-300x289.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a>U.S. dollar is very weak at the moment. If a dollar equaled a Euro (like it did eight years ago) then things wouldn’t be so bad. As I write this, however, a U.S. dollar equals just over .6 of a Euro which means that things are more than 56% expensive in U.S. dollars that they were eight years ago due to the weak dollar. This doesn’t even consider inflation. As recent as 2002, a U.S. dollar equaled 1.15 Euros which means things have actually become more than 70% expensive in just six years (not counting inflation)!</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">The second factor is that there are four of us. Very few hotels in Paris allow four people in a single room (what are called quad rooms in Paris) which means that we’d have to get two rooms at more than 90% of the Paris hotels. Given that average room rates are near 200 Euro a night, we are talking about more than $600 U.S. dollars a night for something that isn’t all that fancy. Ouch! But there is a better, less expensive way.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">Look not for a hotel but an apartment when you want to go to Paris. There are many advantages in renting an apartment in Paris over a hotel room.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">1. apartments are usually bigger, in many cases much bigger<br />
2. apartments have a kitchen (not only is this a matter of convenience, but it also means you </span><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">don’t have to eat out for every meal–saving yourself some more money)<br />
3. apartments frequently include a free-to-use washing machine (and compared to hotels more </span><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">have free cable TV, WiFi, and phone calls)<br />
4. apartment neighbors are usually real Parisians instead of noisy tourists<br />
5. apartments can usually accommodate 4 or more people<br />
6. apartments cost much less than a much smaller hotel room<br />
7. apartments usually have a big price break if you stay for a week or more.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">About the only disadvantage is you won’t have daily maid service. With the above discovered, we narrowed down our search to three places.</span><br />
<a href="http://www.vrbo.com/171594" target="_new"><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">http://www.vrbo.com/171594</span></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.vrbo.com/79965" target="_blank"><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">http://www.vrbo.com/79965</span></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.vrbo.com/117217" target="_blank"><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">http://www.vrbo.com/117217</span></a></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">We ended up going with the middle one because the first seemed a little cramped for four of us, and the last one was booked the week we needed it. I’ll provide reviews and recommendations (or not) after we stay there in August.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">To look for your apartment in Paris these are the two best sites:</span></p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.vrbo.com/vacation-rentals/europe/france/ile-de-france/paris" target="_new"><span style="color:#006600;font-family:trebuchet ms;">http://www.vrbo.com/vacation-rentals/europe/france/ile-de-france/paris</span></a></p>
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		<title>Adapting to Life as an Expatriate</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone Goes Through the Five-Stage Cycle of Crosscultural Adjustment
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Everyone who moves to another country goes through a cultural adjustment cycle. Some take longer to go through the cycle than others.
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<p class="articleauthor"><em>By Daniela Montabaur</em></p>
<p class="articletext">Everyone who moves to another country goes through a cultural adjustment cycle. Some take longer to go through the cycle than others.</p>
<p class="articletext">Expatriate Amy Hart, a North Carolina native who has lived and worked for 11 months in Munich, Germany, helps us to differentiate among the five different stages of the adjustment cycle.</p>
<p class="articletext"><strong>1. Honeymoon Stage:</strong> At first stage everything in Hart’s her new surroundings was profoundly exciting and interesting. She had the feeling of a dream finally coming true and being in the middle of a great adventure. Just like a honeymoon, the bliss of beginning a new life can be rose-colored, happy, and hopeful for most expatriates.</p>
<p class="articletext"><strong>2. Culture Shock:</strong> After six to eight weeks Hart moved into the culture shock stage. “Overall, I hated the feeling of not being independent. It’s as if you are a child again. Your personal freedom is suddenly taken away from you,” said Hart. It’s typical at this stage to physically feel that something is not right.</p>
<p class="articletext">Hart often complained about headaches and stomach upsets. She felt tired and couldn’t concentrate on her work. Her sleeping patterns changed as well. She felt homesick and as if she was living with one foot in her American culture. This stage lasted for about another eight weeks.</p>
<p class="articletext"><strong>3. Initial Adjustment Stage: </strong>After the culture shock period Hart went into what we call initial adjustment stage and became able to connect with local people in social and business situations. Though she was still missing her home, she gained self-reliance. Being needed in her company helped her feel better.</p>
<p class="articletext">It was hard for her to realize that she then had to go through another stage of negative feelings.</p>
<p class="articletext">Pennsylvania expatriate Kelly Payne lived and worked in Germany and Japan. She found it easier to enter this stage of initial adjustment when she learned how the ways of relaxing in her new host country differed from her own.</p>
<p class="articletext">North Americans are active and try to crowd as many activities into an hour as possible. Wasting time is wasting money. In cultures where there is less emphasis on competition, people are able to let time “fill itself.” They place more emphasis on quality of actions than quantity of actions.</p>
<p class="articletext">During the initial 40-minute subway rides to work in Germany, Payne felt the urge “to be doing something.”</p>
<p class="articletext">“When I forgot to take my book or my walkman with me, I felt so useless just sitting in the subway. It took a while until I learned not to feel guilty when I just enjoyed watching people or letting my mind wander,” said Payne.</p>
<p class="articletext"><strong>4. Mental Isolation:</strong> The initial adjustment stage is followed by another wave of integration ups and downs.</p>
<p class="articletext">During this stage Hart really needed support and help from her friends and co-workers. She felt anger toward the host culture and doubt about her decision to live in Europe. “Maybe the people back home are forgetting about me,” said Hart.</p>
<p class="articletext">She complained about the fact that everything is “verboten” (forbidden) in Germany and that the food was different. People were staring at her in a way she was not used to. “I sometimes felt as if I had an imaginary American flag on my forehead. People just knew even before I spoke. “I got the ‘you’re different’ type of look,” said Hart. She lost motivation to continue learning German, and you could tell a difference in her personality. The sparkles in her eyes were dimming but her mind was expanding as she transitioned.</p>
<p class="articletext"><strong>5. Acceptance and Integration:</strong> Finally, Hart entered the last stage of the culture adaptation cycle: acceptance and integration. She stopped trying to change the host culture and stopped making constant comparisons to her own American way. She developed strategies for everyday life in Germany. She was willing to take German classes again, tried to speak German to everyone in the office, and seemed to be more content and less moody.</p>
<p class="articletext">“My sense of time was mixed up in my first months here in Germany. At a restaurant with my German friends, I felt strange when they kept sitting at the table after finishing dinner. I felt the urge to pay for the meal and leave. I was ready to go to another bar or cafè. I learned not to be in such a rush and to have dinner for two hours or more instead of 45 minutes. I began to let go of the feeling that having a tight schedule was important and productive.”</p>
<p class="articletext">The key to overcoming cultural difficulties is being willing to look behind the façade of appearances and learn to understand the basic human emotions we all share. For individuals from different cultural backgrounds, the possible ways of perceiving the same event can differ greatly.</p>
<p class="articletext">“You can only see what you know.” Learning this is the key to understanding.</p>
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		<title>The Life of an Expatriate is not All Sweetness and Light</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sitting at home and gazing out across your windswept and rain soaked garden it is easy to picture yourself enjoying a new life in a new country, but just how does this picture in your mind&#8217;s eye live up to the reality once you have moved overseas? Well, this is not perhaps as easy a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=theexpatriates.wordpress.com&blog=3868548&post=3&subd=theexpatriates&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Sitting at home and gazing out across your windswept and rain soaked garden it is easy to picture yourself enjoying a new life in a new country, but just how does this picture in your mind&#8217;s eye live up to the reality once you have moved overseas? Well, this is not perhaps as easy a question to answer as you might imagine.</p>
<p>Probably the most significant problem is that there are so many variables to think about and so many factors which are quite simply not known at the beginning. It is very easy, for example, to believe that the fact that you do not speak the language is unimportant as, in the short term at least, you may well be able to get by in your mother tongue and can always pick up the language in the longer term. Just how easy is it however to learn a language and just how easy is it to pick up the language of your chosen country?</p>
<p>You may also be looking forward to all that exotic food, but just how is a perhaps substantial change in your diet going to affect your health? You may very well have experienced some wonderful restaurant food on holiday trips but is this really the type of food you will be eating every day when you are cooking for yourself?</p>
<p>The problems are of course relatively minor when it comes to comparing them to trying to adjust mentally to living in what is not only a different country, but possibly a very different culture. Those things which you have considered both curious and fascinating during holiday trips could well present you with considerable problems when they become part and parcel of your daily life.</p>
<p>Most countries with a sizeable expatriate community develop a large support network, which often includes an expat club which holds regular meetings, organizes events and outings, distributes its own newspaper and considerably more. At first sight this may seem very comforting but it is worth considering why the expats in the region have found it necessary to create such an extensive support network. Indeed, when you see the extent to which the lives of many expats revolve around the expat community you may well find yourself asking why they chose to live overseas in the first place.</p>
<p>In fact many expats find that, once the novelty wears off, they regret their decision but have frequently burnt their bridges and now find themselves with no alternative other than to stay where they are and to make the best of their situation.</p>
<p>Of course this is not the case with all expats and, as an expat myself, I can tell you that there are also many of us who are extremely happy with our decision to move overseas and would not wish to turn the clock back. For many hundreds of people each year the decision to live abroad is the best decision they have ever made and one which they assuredly do not regret. By how can you tell which group you are likely to join before you take your decision?</p>
<p>Regretably, you can never be certain, although there are some things which you can do to increase the chances of your decision being one which you are glad you made.</p>
<p>The most important thing that you can do is to test the water so to speak and this means effectively living in your chosen country for a fair period of time before you cut your ties with home. But the critical word here is &#8216;living&#8217;.</p>
<p>It is no good just visiting your chosen country from time to time on holiday, staying in hotels and dining out in restaurants. Ideally you need to spend at least a year in the country and to throw off any thoughts of being on holiday. You have got to make a conscious effort to live as you would want to live in the longer term, staying away from tourist areas and activities and becoming part of the local community. Live just like a local, doing your own cooking and taking the time to learn something of the local history, lifestyle and culture, as well as making the effort to learn the language.</p>
<p>By steering clear of the expatriate community and integrating yourself into the local community from the very outset you will rapidly find out whether or not you would be making a wise decision to move overseas permanently.</p>
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